Many people believe expensive gifts like a dozen long stem red roses or jewelry completely satisfy woman. Yes, it works. Women feel good about themselves. Traditional gifts validate their beauty. However, thoughtful gifts have a greater impact, because they remind women of when someone cared or paid attention.
Buying clothing for a woman is a losing cause. Jewelry and lingerie are good gifts because they only wear them rarely or in private. These gifts remind them of how much they care about you. If you must buy clothing for a woman, give her a gift certificate to her favorite store or go shopping together. Remember to buy a cheap bobble: plastic ring, flower or key chain. The memento brings about fond memories of shopping.
Women enjoy expensive gifts. On special holidays buy something nice or go out to dinner. Buy an inexpensive gift to mark the occasion. Mementos cost around five dollars and are more effective than a sentimental card. Women enjoy show gifts to other people, yet the feeling of being noticed and loved creates warm thoughts of love towards the gift giver.
Mementos are the best gift. Trinkets related to thinking of them or knowing their tastes are better than expensive gifts. Every time they use it, they remember the conversation or know you pay attention to how they dress or their interests. This sounds complicated, yet it is easy. If she likes skull motifs buy her a skull and bone key chain at a gas station. It sounds cheap, yet whenever she reaches for her keys she thinks about being together.
A women struggling with owning too many keys will appreciate a janitorial key ring with a pull string chain. It sounds like an odd gift, yet it is something she would not buy for herself. She complained about it and you came up with a solution. This is interpreted as listening.
I was surprised when someone was happy about getting a dish washing machine. Apparently, she complained about how the old one. Normally, buying a woman house hold appliance is not acceptable. Making it easier for them to perform work is like buying someone a sander so they can finish painting your walls. It isn't really a gift, unless they were talking about how much they wanted a new sander.
Women drop hints. This involves window shopping and pointing out exactly what she wants. Then she anticipates receiving the gift. These are good gifts because she will use it; however, it also encourages nagging. The system of telling you what they want worked.
Picture them in your mind before buying a gift. Find a gift complementary to what they said, did or preferred. The relationship strengthens as trinkets are scatter through the house, purse, or car. Holding the object in their hands reminds them of shared experiences. When reorganizing their jewelry box a glass marble purchased on vacation uncovers warm feelings and memories.
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